Eye On CameraWare -- adult

Written by: Alynna

As long as there has been sex, there have been fetishes. Webster's Dictionary defines fetishes as " an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.” I define them as just plain fun! *Giggle*

Toys
Ohhh one of my favorite fetishes! I like them big, I like them small, I like them long, I like them all! OK, I’m sorry, I just get excited when I talk toys. Dildo fetishes are the most common, with bottles and anal beads coming in close behind. (Please pardon the pun). Vibrators put a smile on most ladies’ faces and the gentlemen seem to enjoy them too. Add a few Chinese balls (ben wah balls) and we are having a good time now!

Wardrobe
Wardrobe is one of my personal fetishes. If I can’t dress up, I just cannot get excited. This is a very expensive (but oh so fun) category! Most evenings, the standard latex, leather or lace outfit with a pair of high heels gets it for me, but sometimes I like to don a collar and lead, chains or handcuffs and shackles to add that BDSM air to the evening. Wearing rubber or cling film is fun but tends to make me a bit on the clammy side, especially with spring approaching. Diaper fetishes, chastity devices, cross-dressing, and wearing masks always makes for a much more interesting night!

Body Parts
Probably the first thing that comes to people’s minds when they hear the word Fetish is Foot Fetish. I suppose that is because of the catchy name. Fashion fetishes don’t stop there though; foot fetishes are just a toehold in the Body Part department. I will help you get a foot up on fetishes and let you run with it; I would hate to make an ass out of myself and forget something important, like anal sex! Just imagine what a perfect world it would be if every couple contained one person with a oral fixation and the other person with a tongue fetish. I think everyone has personal preferences for body parts, but some of us have particular fetishes like nipples, body hair or piercing that are placed just right! If you have a body part, chances are someone has a fetish for it!

Role Playing
This group of fetishes is a lot of fun! We get to combine several of our favorite fashion fetishes with a few of our most adored activities! I think everyone likes to play Doctor, especially when the Nurse has a cute little white dress. Hey, that’s not where the stethoscope goes! Get out the Convict and Warden’s Wife outfits, grab the cuffs and we are off for a little jail time action. But relax, its only MissDemeanor doling out the punishment today! Role-playing covers a vast amount of territory, from naughty schoolgirls to religious (nunplay, priestplay)

Acts
Humans are very interesting, sexually. If a human does it, another human finds it sexy. This group of fetishes is not restricted to sexual acts, like masturbation, gangbangs, or fisting but can include every day activities like shaving or cooking. I can assure you, I do not have a housecleaning fetish but can easily develop one if the right partner offers *giggle*. Some folks get off watching someone sneeze or yawn while still others just can’t get off unless they watch someone pop balloons by sitting on them.

Body Fluids
You may as well put these on the NoNo list in life; most states don’t allow for blood sport (the art of drawing blood for sexual pleasure) many specifically put the kibosh on enemas, messy (scat) and watersports (golden showers, pee). Douching for cleanliness is one thing, douching for fun is questionable. Cleanliness is next to funliness.... Isn't that how the old saying goes?.

BDSM = Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, S&M. This is the catchall category. Most of these activities are harmless and fun, some may be painful and/or cause scarring. A few are dangerous and possibly illegal and should only be performed by individuals carefully trained in the arts of BDSM.

The ‘mild’ category might include simple bondage, blindfolds, caging, and paddling or spanking, slave and master. Most of these types of play are harmless and, if kept within reason, can be practiced by average adults.

As one’s experience grows, many adults may want to partake in the more sophisticated forms of BDSM. Care should be taken, as permanent scarring may happen with even the simplest of candle wax application. Masochism (gaining sexual pleasure by of having pain inflicted on oneself) and Sadism (gaining sexual pleasure by inflicting pain on another) is a whole lot of fun with the right partner. This partner may also enjoy a good go-around with some Domination and Submission play; keep in mind that many like to ‘switch’ which is to switch from Dom to Sub and vice versa. Sometimes a slave is bad and deserves a good punishment! You may want to try a bit of ‘cupping’, which is suctioning of the skin. Mmmmmmmmmm feels so nice!

This last section is definitely NOT for the weak at heart or for the untrained. These are considered dangerous, extreme and potentially dangerous, if not fatal. Branding, knife play, electrotorture, cock and ball or breast bondage and torture can leave permanent scarring. The rack (yes, just like in medieval times) and trampling feel very nice, especially when one has a bad back; but these can get very dangerous quickly if things go too far. Two of the most dangerous acts are asphyxiaphilia (choking another during sex) and autoerotic asphyxiation (choking oneself during masturbation) is HIGHLY DANGEROUS.

No matter what your fetish, be careful and enjoy!